Behind every great blogger is…

2009 November 15
by theroughdiamonds
- An inspiration
- A motive
- A reason
- A secret
I have many secrets. Many of which, don’t mean anything to anyone but me. But sometimes, if you think about it for a long time it just might.
I’ve changed who I am, and I love myself for it. But I’m just a little less sure of myself everyday I keep saying that I will be less nervous. That this will work… Kind of like the way a thread slowly unravels, until there’s nothing left. I’m scared that will happen to me.

I keep having little moments, when I stop, stare, and remember the awkward smiles, and not so funny jokes, they way we screamed at each other from across a room. Yet we were still smiling, we were only just joking we were still laughing. And I wasn’t so serious, I wasn’t so scared anymore.

I thought everything that was you and everything that was me would intertwine so magically that all that lay before us in this big scary world would disregard all the pain and suffering I had caused everyone and just indulge in the love that was so devastatingly beautiful a single kiss could save a thousand lives.

But because of all of this I realised that I could write everyone I’ve ever missed a thousand emails, asking how they are, and how much I miss them. But none of that would compare to a small envelope with a picture of us smiling together.
And  scrawled on the back, would be those three little words written in my hand writing.

Because I think that would mean a great deal more.

that’s what’s behind me.
What’s behind you?


All photos are found via Weheartit.com, Flickr.com

Sanchez

Gather Around and Meet…Sanchez!!

2009 November 15
by theroughdiamonds

Blog: The Inky Finger Files

Blogger’s Name: Sanchez

Location: Melbourne, Australia

What we like about her: Her Blog is like therapy!

Oh please I need it! Tell me more: She speaks to your soul through her very honest and personal posts! And her Who I am post has inspired a lot of bloggers!

Lightening Round: Get to know the person she really is!

What made you start your blog?
I befriended a girl named Erimentha. and I was scared, and worried at the time that this was just a false sense of security. But I realised it wasn’t, when she showed me her blog.

So I decided to start one for myself.

Where do you get your inspiration from?
I guess, I think about what I miss. I always seem to talk about change, or someone I love. I’m very obsessed with who I am… or really who I was. But I guess that’s just a bit vain isn’t it?
How would you describe your blog in one sentence?
Very, very inky.
If you could have any three items in your apartment, what would you chose?
A comfy bed, blank white walls, and an inky pen to write my life with.
Your favourite blog is?
I have several. Some of them are: The little blog of Happiness, Lets Fly Away and I Wrote This for You.
If you could have one superpower, which would you choose?
I would choose to read minds. Not so I could see what everyone was thinking. But so I could have the comfort of knowning that we all have emotions which can be so devestatingly real. Also, I’d know that I wasnt the only one who talks to herself in her head.
Make sure you read Sanchez’ LOVELY post below and that you check her blog!

Gather round and meet… Evelyn

2009 November 11
by theroughdiamonds

Blogger: Evelyn

Location: San Francisco

What we like about her: Evelyn’s blog is happy! Each post is positive and interesting with lovely words and images and you genuinely feel happier from reading them.

Wow, she sounds great… tell me more: Not only is Evelyn’s positivity inspiring but she also takes the most beautiful photos with her Holga camera and she always looks lovely as well.

Lightning Round:….the place where we ask THE hard-hitting, important life questions that you all need and want to know:

What made you start your blog?

After reading other peoples’ blogs for awhile gave me the urge to start my own because it seemed fun to share the things about yourself, of what you like and also its a good way to meet bloggers from around the world. And I’ve met some awesome people through the blog world. So I’m happy to have started my blog.

Do you prefer muffins or cupcakes?

I like them both haha. I know most choose cupcakes because they are cute and sweet looking. But muffins are really good too! So I say muffins since I’ve had them more than cupcakes.

Your favorite book is?

Ahh! this is hard, me being a bookworm haha. I love almost all but I have to say my favorite book is ‘Water for Elephants’ by Sara Gruen. What an awesome book it is and I highly recommend! :D

If you could have tea and cake with any three people (living or dead) who would you pick?

Well I would love to have tea and cake with Thom Yorke. Don’t know if he’ll like to have tea and cake though haha. But I am a big fan of his music. He’s the lead singer of Radiohead and I think he sings amazing and writes the most incredible lyrics!

America Ferrera. She inspires me and she’s so confident. I think she’s very lovely!

and Mila Kunis. A favorite actress of mine because she’s so cool and beautiful. I love her personality and because she plays World of Warcraft too! Haha.

What TV show would you like your life to be?

Maybe ‘The Office’. It’s so hilarious and I think it would a lot of fun to be part of that funny show. Michael Scott always makes me laugh. But another show that’ll be very cool would be ‘LOST’. But I don’t know if’ll I like to be stuck living in an island for so long. I might go crazy! xD

Isn’t she delightful? Don’t forget to read Evelyn’s amazing guest post below and check out her lovely lovely blog – it will make your day!

 

Behind every blogger…

2009 November 11
by theroughdiamonds
…is a person full of ideas, thoughts and inspiration. I try to capture photos of things I find interesting, unique and beautiful and to have memories to remember of places I’ve been to. And also of course to share with others of what I see and where I’ve been. I think a photo can be truly inspiring for many and it makes me smile to see others enjoy what I’ve captured on film and inspire them in a way. What I post in my blog is things that show who I am, I just like being myself.

Here are few film photos I’ve taken using a Holga, and behind every photo is a little about me.

Music is a big part of me and it makes me very happy seeing someone play the saxophone. It’s one of favorite instruments and I myself play it too. It has such a beautiful jazzy sound to it. Very fun to play!
These leaves are some of the first ones that fell from a tree and a sign of autumn. I love Fall, the colors, the warm clothing, coffee, cuddling, and warm blankets ^_^

I can’t help take photos of flowers, I know they’ll end up always looking beautiful. Things from nature is my most favorite things to take pictures of because it so naturally beautiful. Nature inspires me :] Whether its clouds, the sea, leaves, trees or a river.

Gather round and meet… Red Boots

2009 November 4
by theroughdiamonds
Hey Diamond readers, its Rhianne here from For the easily distracted…

As some of you may know I have followed the progress of Diamonds in the Rough from the very beginning so when I was asked to be part of the team I was beyond excited!! 

After falling in love with Rose Red’s guest post we decided that the theme for this month is
‘Behind every great blogger…’
 
I will admit that my choices of bloggers for my first month has been a little bit indulgent – each one is a favourite of mine but I am sure you will adore them all as much as I do!
 
So first up is….

Blog: Red Boots

Blogger: Wendy

Location: Scotland

What we like about her: As well as being sweet, funny and kind, Wendy is constantly posting about the adventures in her life including her home, her loves and the things that make her happy.

She sounds wonderful… what else should we know: Wendy has great taste in everything – music, clothes, tv shows, places she live and not only that – she also takes beautiful photos with all her cameras (including a holga and a Polaroid) and she has a pet parrot called Lily!

Lightning Round:
….the place where we ask THE hard-hitting, important life questions that you all need and want to know:

Do you prefer muffins or cupcakes?

Cupcakes! The frosting is by far my favourite part of the cupcake. However, if you frosted a muffin then surely that would be cake heaven – a muffin is much larger so would hold way more frosting!

If you could have tea and cake with any three people (living or dead) who would you pick?

Sufjan Stevens – to provide the music.

Jermaine & Brett from Flight of the Conchords – for witty banter.

Rachel Carson (writer) – Silent Spring was probably one of the most important books published in the 20th century – so she would add the philosophical element.

We’d definitely eat muffins covered in frosting and drink mugs of steaming hot Earl Grey tea!

Your most embarrassing moment is?

I am exceptionally clumsy, so I am a walking embarrassing moment about to happen. I can trip over nothing. I have also vomitted on dates, got locked in a toilet on my first day of work, you name it, I have probably done it…

The song that never fails to make you crazy-dance is?

I’m a bit of a sucker for anything by Fleetwood Mac. When my friends and I get together, we push the sofas against the wall and dance like drunken aunts at a wedding.

Your favourite book is?

I love both books by Jonathan Safran Foer – Everything is Illuminated & Incredibly Loud and Extremely Close – both have the ability to move me to tears every time I pick them up. I also love anything by Gabriel Garcia Marquez – Love In The Time of Cholera and One Hundred Years of Solitude (despite the sightly depressing names) are some of the most magical and uplifting books you could ever read.

If you could have any three items in your apartment, what would you chose?

I’ve been lusting after a KitchenAid in bright red for years, so definitely a KitchenAid. I have a bit of a thing for red kitchenware – pretty much everything in there is red.

A claw-footed bath tub. How amazing it would be to sink into one of them on a cold night.

Pictures on the wall – we live in a rented accommodation and our landlord is so uptight, that we can’t hang anything on the wall. We even had to ask permission to hang a mirror above the bathroom sink! So upsetting! I am collecting nice framed pictures, and putting them on the floor against the wall, so at least there is something pretty to look at.

 
Isn’t she lovely? Check out Wendy’s guest post below and pop over to her wonderful blog to say hi!!

Rhianne x

 

In my world…

2009 November 4
by theroughdiamonds
…I see beauty in unusual places

…I See light in dark places

…I believe love conquers all

Wendy

xx

{All images via weheartit}

introducing…jaime!

2009 October 21
by theroughdiamonds


Blogger’s Name: Jaime

Location: nyc

What we like about her: we love jaime’s honesty and genuine personality {which is very obvious through her posts!} she has such a sweet spirit about her and always posts what’s on her heart. like many bloggers we love, she keeps us updated on her life and always has us laughing with awesome stories.

Hmmm interesting ….what else should we know: she blogs because she loves it. she comments back and really enjoys meeting people through blogs. i can always count on a sweet comment from jaime. she also posts very frequently… hello lover :)

Lightening Round

the place where we ask the really important questions…

What made you start your blog? I’ve always enjoyed writing and lately I’ve been feeling like I haven’t had enough time to do so. I had been following a couple of lovely blogs and thought that maybe blogging can help me get out of my rut. I made the leap, created an account and haven’t looked back since!

Do you prefer muffins or cupcakes?
Cupcakes are definitely where its at.

If you could have one superpower, which would you choose?
Is it possible to have the power to have all superpowers? That’s no fun though!? That’s like using your 3rd wish to ask for more wishes. Seriously, flying would be pretty sweet. I’d definitely want to fly.

Your favourite book is?
I have many, many favorite books. Right now it’s The Shadow Of The Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zafon. Ask me in a week and I’ll probably have a new fave to ask to the list!What TV show would you like your life to be? Most definitely The Office. Who wouldn’t want a Michael Scott or a Dwight Schrute in their life? Or a Jim for that matter…wink wink ;)



don’t forget to check out jaime’s guest post below and show her some love!
xoxo, nicole

what school hasn’t taught me…

2009 October 21
by theroughdiamonds

I’ve spent many hours asking myself “What hasn’t school taught me?” It’s an odd thing really, because back in school I was a very quiet girl who pretty much accepted everything I was told to do. I did my homework and I did my papers and I smiled the whole way through. I had never really questioned anything, and now I’m seeing that as a possible fault. I was very shy in school. Up until college I lived in a little bubble of friends, doing little bubble things in my little bubbly world. My quietness allowed me to be a good student, but did not allow me to grow socially and emotionally. I had my family and my circle, and that’s where I stayed. Now I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with this – because in reality, we all know of worse situations that may/may not take place in school. I had a peaceful school career. But it wasn’t necessarily a fun one. Of course it had it’s moments, but it wasn’t until too late that I realized that I was missing out on the great people around me.

School also never taught me that life would let me down sometimes. I did an assignment, handed it in, got whichever grade was the grade I deserved. My teachers were just and kind and I am thankful for that; but at the same time – school never really offered me any disappointment. Only real life can teach that people will sometimes let you down, things will sometimes let you down. Not everyone is exactly trustworthy while some people are completely genuine. In failing to teach this it failed to show me that even though disappointment comes from time to time, the good will come again. Good faith can be renewed and re-deserved – but not without warrant.

School, of course, also failed to teach me the fun things. The things that everyone should know. Like drink a bottle of water before you go to bed if you’ve been drinking to avoid a hangover. (Thanks for that gem, college!) Or don’t stay up until three in the morning watching Lost on Hulu if you have something to do early the next day. You might be kind of tired! There are countless bits and pieces that school could not have possibly covered, which makes life all that much more beautiful. What school has failed to teach me – that my friends will always be there by my side, that my family will be my rock, that sticking to a certain time for bed (even though that next episode of Lost looks SO stinkin’ good!) will be beneficial the next day, life has more than made up for. And it’s these little lessons that make living the best school of all. And why blogging about it is so much fun!

Gather Around and Meet…Gracie!

2009 October 16
by theroughdiamonds

Blog: Gracie Bella Butterfly

Blogger: Gracie

Location: Australia

Why We Love Her: She’s just so lovable! You feel like part of her life the instant you read her blog. She also post lovely pictures and has all kinds of inspiration there :)

How About You Tell Us  More! Gracie is getting married soon, so there is a lot of wedding inspiration on her blog, and her “Just a minute in…” posts always keep me inspired with all the things on her schedule.

The Lightning Round:

Some loveliness from and about our blogger

What made you start your blog? When I first started my blog it was meant to be a place to write about my life, my thoughts and share my creations. Plus I started to read a lot of blogs and enjoyed them.

Where do you get your inspiration from? I get my inspiration from many things….books, blogs, photos, magazines, inspiring people. I think the people around me show me beauty in all the small things.

If you could have tea and cake with any 3 people (living or dead) who would you pick? I would have to say Esther from the Bible because I loved her story, Suzanne Collins (author of The Hunger Games Trilogy) to discuss the book series and Audrey Hepburn because she is such an inspiration.

Your favourite book is? I have a lot of favourite books so I might just list some of them. One of my favourites is the Chronicles of Narnia. But my most recent favourite book series is The Hunger Games Trilogy.

Money can’t buy you love, but it COULD buy you? An around the world trip, a honeymoon and lots of stationery and books!

How do you take your tea? I either take it with no milk if it’s green tea or skim milk with no sugar and usually a biscuit or piece of chocolate (this is why I don’t need sugar).

Important Things We Didn’t Learn at School

2009 October 16
by theroughdiamonds

There are several important things we didn’t learn at school that I wish I was able to. These are things that I personally didn’t learn at school (in class).

* How to accept and embrace yourself….I think school made me feel more insecure about myself instead of accepting the way I am. I would judge my looks, my grades, my personality against other people and it caused me to feel unhappy with myself.

* How to appreciate life and others….Sure we learnt to appreciate people but I think many of us (myself I know) were more selfish at school. I didn’t always appreciate my parents and other people around me. Or appreciate that I am so blessed.

* How it feels better to give than receive….The joy on someone’s face when you give them something they’ve weren’t expecting is simply wonderful.

* How to see the beauty with the little things. I think we have a tendency to forget the little things. Such as the beauty of the sunrise, the feel of cool water at the beach on a hot day, the smell of a new book, the soft glow of fairy lights.

* How to capture precious moments. Life goes by so fast and I wish I captured more of the moments I experienced at school. Sometimes I wish I could go back and write about it.

* To see beyond the outside appearance of a person. I think we would judge a person’s outside appearance a lot quicker before we truly get to know them.  There are so many people with such a wonderful personality but we miss out on getting to know them because we judge how they look on the outside.

* To value a good friendship. We don’t always value our friendships and sometimes it’s the tough times that we realise how important these friendships are. We need to value them through the good and bad.

In the end, I didn’t learn these important things at school but I learnt these through my experiences in life (through school life and now). And for that I am grateful for the good things, the mistakes they all helped me to grow as a person and taught me to appreciate my life.

Thanks for letting me share lovelies =)

**** Thanks Sara and everyone from Diamonds in the Rough.

Gracie x